That's a fantastic question! It's wonderful that you're taking the initiative to prepare your cousins for their first Powwow experience. Teaching children Powwow etiquette is crucial for fostering respect and ensuring everyone has a positive time. Here's a guide to help them understand and participate respectfully: 🙏
Respect for the Arena and Sacred Space ✨
The Powwow arena is a very special and often sacred space, especially the area where the dancers perform. Teach children that this isn't a playground. Running, playing, or cutting across the dance arena is generally not allowed unless it's for a specific dance or directed by an elder. Encourage them to stay in designated seating areas and watch the proceedings with quiet appreciation. This respect extends to the drum, which is considered the heartbeat of the Powwow; it should never be touched without explicit invitation.
Listen to the Emcee 👂
The Emcee is like the Powwow's narrator and guide. They announce different dances, explain their significance, and most importantly, let everyone know when to stand or sit. It's vital that children, and adults, listen carefully to the Emcee's instructions. For example, during Flag Songs, Veteran's Songs, or Honor Songs, everyone is expected to stand as a sign of respect. Sometimes, specific dances might be closed to photography, and the Emcee will make that clear.
Photography Etiquette 📸
While many Powwows allow general photography, it's always best to teach children to be considerate. Remind them to never point a camera directly into a dancer's face without asking permission first. Regalia (the outfits dancers wear) is deeply personal and often has spiritual significance; it's not a costume. Explain that asking permission shows respect for the dancer and their heritage. If a dancer declines, teach them to gracefully accept it.
Respecting Dancers and Regalia
Dancers put a lot of time, effort, and often spiritual significance into their regalia. Children should understand that this isn't something to touch or play with. Explain that regalia is not just clothing; it's an extension of the dancer's spirit and culture. They should never grab, pull on, or even point at a dancer's regalia. If they're curious, encourage them to ask an adult to inquire on their behalf, or wait until after a dance to politely ask a dancer (if appropriate and time allows) about their regalia, still without touching.
General Behavior and Courtesy 🗣️
- Quiet during sacred moments: During Honor Songs, prayers, or serious ceremonies, children should be taught to remain quiet and still.
- Keep areas clean: Teach them to dispose of trash properly in designated bins.
- No interrupting: If an elder or dancer is speaking or performing, children should not interrupt.
- Be patient: Powwows can be long events. Encourage patience and enjoy the atmosphere.
By teaching these guidelines, you're not just ensuring good behavior; you're also imparting valuable lessons about cultural respect, observation, and mindfulness. Your cousins will not only have a wonderful time but will also leave with a deeper understanding and appreciation for Indigenous cultures. Enjoy the Powwow! 💚