π What are Gendered Pronouns?
Gendered pronouns are words we use to refer to people, and these words specifically indicate whether someone is a boy/man or a girl/woman. These are the pronouns you're probably most familiar with!
- π§ She/Her/Hers: Used to refer to girls and women. Example: She likes to read. That book is hers.
- π¦ He/Him/His: Used to refer to boys and men. Example: He plays soccer. That is his ball.
π What are Gender-Neutral Pronouns?
Gender-neutral pronouns (sometimes called non-binary pronouns) don't associate a specific gender. They can be used by anyone, regardless of whether they identify as male, female, both, or neither. The most common one is 'they/them/theirs'.
- π§βπ« They/Them/Theirs: Can be used to refer to one person or multiple people. Example: They are going to the park. That is their kite.
- π Ze/Zir/Zirs: Less common, but still valid! Example: Ze is a great student. That is zir project.
π Gendered vs. Gender-Neutral Pronouns: The Breakdown
| Feature |
Gendered Pronouns |
Gender-Neutral Pronouns |
| Definition |
Pronouns that indicate a specific gender (male or female). |
Pronouns that don't indicate a specific gender. |
| Examples |
He/Him/His, She/Her/Hers |
They/Them/Theirs, Ze/Zir/Zirs |
| Usage |
Used when someone identifies as male or female. |
Used when someone doesn't identify as male or female, or when their gender is unknown or irrelevant. |
| Commonality |
More traditionally common. |
Increasingly common and recognized. |
π‘ Key Takeaways
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Respect: Always use the pronouns someone asks you to use. It's a sign of respect!
- π Listen: Pay attention to how people refer to themselves.
- βοΈ Practice: The more you use different pronouns, the easier it becomes!
- π Inclusivity: Using gender-neutral pronouns helps create a more inclusive environment for everyone.